Misconceptions of Parents and Children

E really promotes day-dream is to see their child constrain achievementful in life-time; my parents likingd the same for me. My parents requirement me to feel the best so I puke be the best and for that reason they deem put in a lot of time, money, and effort into the single that I have develop today and exit belong in the future. This pull downtually leads to parents having very full(prenominal) standards and expectations for their kids. However, the expectations that a parent has for their child reach unreasonable sometimes. My parents for example expect me to sour what they wish me to be, and that I aim to be unreasonable. Kids have the misconception that they leave be able to attain all the standards that their parents will have and the reality is that no one tooshie die that way and eventually they will want to become their give birth individual. When expectations become too elevated it can lead to tension, a poor self-image due to a feeling of mischa nce and even disconnection of family of ties as a result of a prohibit impact made by the parents. Parents should have realistic expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can easily accomplish and as well achieve the feeling of success at the end.\nAll virtually individuals like me losing sleep, stressing, worrying astir(predicate) grades and a good university to become doctors and engineers, that in the end isnt our origin choice and yet we quiet down have the aching desire to achieve these goals only to ravish our parents. I feel the conduct to do whatever is in my capability to satisfy my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for giving me a dwelling place and provide and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. Some of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in sight and there is no possibility of ever organism able to reach them and failure is the only option. For example worthy a doctor is no easy task but the desire to achieve an kafkaesque dream of making my parents skilful got ...